• How to make friends

    2005-07-23

    Tag：Friend Life

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    All of us are eager for good friends. There are many good sayings about friendship, for example, a friend in need is friend indeed——　Ray. But for me, I think how to make friends is a great problem. And I guess it’s the case for many people, although many famous people have given us valuable advice, such as, fate chooses your relatives, you choose your friends.——　Abbe Jacques Delille, and a hedge between keeps friendship green—— J. A. Charles. As far as I am concerned, I don’t want to admit I have many friends. During my senior school, I got along well with several classmates. When we entered different universities, though we wrote to each other sometimes, I didn’t think we could tell everything to each other. Firstly, different experiences make much difficulty for us to understand each other and give useful suggestions. Secondly, I would like to tell them some jokes rather than my troubles, for I believe telling them these troubles is no good to solve them because of distance and it may cause useless worries. Therefore, we just shared each others’ happiness and part of our miseries, but we encouraged each other as much as possible. Gradually, we wrote less and less frequently, and then we lost touch with each other at last. I concluded from this experience that a friend is someone going the same way with us for a period time. When we start different way, friendship fades away. Maybe it’s not exact to say friendship disappear. It still continues, for from then on, though we seldom contact each other except greetings, he or she is still in our memories and if he or she turns to us for help one day, we will try ourselves best to help them. So it’s no need for us to self-accuse for we don’t help our friends as much as before. As long as you can make every effort to help your friends when he or she meets troubles, you are still good friends. When I came to this university, I met Wenxin, a lovely girl. We have a lot in common, and we try to make good friends with each other. But I don’t know how to. Should we make it develop naturally or should we do something to promote it? In a series play, one of the heroines told to the other one, “friends should cheat each other to make everyone happy.” Should we? At the end of last semester, I sent an e-mail to Wenxin, in which I pointed out several weakness of her, she was grateful to me. And now I am waiting for her letter about my weakness. We want to be friends who give forthright admonition to each other. However, white lies are still needed now and then. It seems everyone knows what friendship is and has many friends. In my opinion, not all of them know how to make friends actually. Though there are so many wisdoms about friendship for us, it’s still necessary for us to explore how to make friends. Not only friendship, so is how to live a meaning life. In despite of so many wisdoms and true stories, how to live is still a problem everyone should face. Once I expected that someone could tell me what I should choose when I have to make some decisions, but now I give up this kind of expectation, because I have realized that how to live depends on me. It’s sure that this doesn’t mean we should never turn to others for help. Therefore, I have another belief that I will use all my life time to know how to live a life. To live is to explore how we can live a meaningful life.

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